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To our NMO Family...

May 8, 2012 by Collinsmommy   Comments (0)

We just wanted to take a minute to thank you all for everything you did for our family during Collin's illness over the past several years. all the information, help, & friendships we have made with you all will never be forgotten. We appreciate all the thoughts & prayers for our family during our time of loss. the last 5 weeks have been very painful for us as we are trying to adapt to life without our sweet Super Hero. Thank you to everyone of you for everything you did.

We hope to stay a part of the NMO community. though Collin's battle is over, we will still be here fighting for our NMO family. This fight is near & dear to our hearts. No one should go through what Collin went through & our new goal in life is to work to make this stop! We love you all!

We also greatly appreciate the Guthy-Jackson Foundation's willingness to honor our Super Hero by starting the "Collin McDaniel Hope Grant" for the purpose of Pediatric NMO research. It is an honor to our family to know our Collin will never be forgotten. Thank you so much to Victoria, Bill, Ali & all the others who have worked so hard.

Much Love,
Carey, Lisa, Angellyn & Mishelle McDaniel

GJCF YouTube Channel

April 27, 2012 by Derek Blackway   Comments (2)

The GJCF NMO videos are now on the GJCF YouTube channel! Watch over 50 videos about NMO ranging from science to advocacy. Click the link below to watch NMO videos and don't forget to subscribe to our channel. Also, send this link to your contacts: http://www.youtube.com/gjcf2010

Re: [Devics-spectrum] Medication Fears

April 9, 2012 by Collinsmommy   Comments (3)

Take the drugs...the alternative could be death.  If they work, take them!!!  We risked it all for Collin, but in the end, none of the meds topped his flares.  Trust me, you don't want the alternative!!

~Lisa~
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On Mon, Apr 9, 2012 at 6:53 PM, Lea Long <

 
You're not crazy!  It's a logical conclusion.  I felt the same way - that these drugs
we need to take have to take it's toll on our bodies and can't possibly be "good".
I question it and ask my neuro at least once a year!  Bottom line is he reminds me
that the alternative is to risk further permanent damage.  I'm already blind in one eye
and have lost strength and coordination in my legs.  I'm only 50 w/3 active boys,
and have alot of living left to do and realize that I need to do what I can to preserve
my eyesight and mobility.  He always reminds me that it isn't matter of "if" I will have
another attack - it's "when".  I've had numerous major attacks since 1998 - although
I recover somewhat - it's never 100% and I lose more every time.
 
Unfortunately you can't wait until you have another attack - it's too late at that point.
You're lucky you haven't had any life-altering attacks yet.  I lost my eyesight because
I was mis-diagnosed and taking Avonex for MS.  I always wonder "what if" I had been
on a NMO therapy sooner . . . but unfortunately NMO patients are riddled with "what if".
 
Please don't stop without having a real sit down w/your neuro.  You're lucky you were
diagnosed before you had any serious damage - that is not the case for most of us!

Update on Collin...

February 10, 2012 by Collinsmommy   Comments (2)

Copied & pasted from his caringbridge:

Our Super Hero will not be with us much longer. Our hearts hurt with more pain than you can imagine, however, we know it is time to let him go. He deserves to be free from pain, to be able to be whole, to run & play again. As much as it hurts us, we know he needs to be free.

There have been changes the last week, especially the last couple of days. There is apparently damage to his brain stem now. His breathing goes from shallow, to very hard deep breaths, to very long pauses in between. His heart rate has sat around 30 at times, but the last couple of days has been around 150. His blood pressure was way up a couple of days to a high of 180/140 down to a low of 70/30, then back up high again. His temp has been high, then low, he has hallucinations, thinks he is falling, thinks he is trapped & many other things. This afternoon, he started having seizures. It was a very scary time & we really thought we would loose him this afternoon. Meds were started to help with that & hopefully he will not have anymore. All these things point to brain stem damage. Yesterday, he woke up vomiting & vomited most of the day. Everyone thinks it is his body's way of telling us he could not tolerate the fluids anymore, so they had to be stopped.

As you can imagine, this past week has been extremely draining on us all, but especially Collin. Our Super Hero is getting his cape ready to fly. I will also share with you about how Collin woke up last night for a few minutes saying he would be running & playing with Jesus soon. He wanted us to promise him we would be there with him soon. Even in his pain and last days, his concern is about us. He is an amazing boy & he knows where he is going.

We will do our best to update as we can. We are able to update on facebook more often, as it is quicker & easier to get to. You can find his facebook page here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/230999296975614/

Please keep sending us your Super Hero Collin stories, memories & stories of how he has inspired your life. We have loved reading them all! Thank you to all who have taken the time to do this!

If you go to collinsquest.org you can see Collin's life in pictures, going back over the last few years.

Our friends have graciously put together a Fundraiser/Sing/Supper for our family. It will be Saturday, Feb. 25 at Choccolocco Community Church. Spaghetti Supper will start at 5, singing at 6. Groups singing are: Clearvision, Crystal River & Hope's Journey. For more information, call Metha Dover 256-605-1033 or for information including donation information:

https://www.facebook.com/events/342490542440904/

Thank you so much for checking in on us. Please continue to keep us in your prayers as we continue to walk this path. Pray for peace for Collin and for his pain & suffering to end.

Re: [Devics-spectrum] Alicia

January 27, 2012 by Collinsmommy   Comments (0)

Dearest Cathy,

You have found the right place for support & information.  My sweet boy is 9 & was diagnosed at age 5.  If there is anything I can help you with, please feel free to ask.  I will do whatever I can to help you, support you & help you learn about this disease.  Hang in there & trust your instincts!  Feel free to email me anytime.  

Re: [Devics-spectrum] How did your year go?

January 1, 2012 by Collinsmommy   Comments (4)

It has been a year of pain & heartache for us.  Collin started the year out fighting for his life in the hospital with 6 of his organ systems in failure.  He finally became well enough to come home, but he wasn't himself.  He never went back to himself & has declined all year.  The last few months have been super hard, as he has gone down hill so much.  Docs don't know what else to do for him & say he will continue to get worse.  Just this past week, they decided it was time to bring Hospice in to care for him.  We have watched him suffer all year long & it is only getting worse.  So, he began the year fighting for his life & he ended the year fighting for his life.  I guess I should be thankful he is still fighting, but the pain of watching him is heartbreaking & too much to bear.    I miss his smiling face & his wonderful spirit.  We will get through this, somehow, someway.  I just want my baby healed & out of pain.  My heart wants him here with us, but I realize his healing may not come in the way I want it.  2012 is not looking so good so far.


I love you all.  Keep fighting the fight, that is all any of us can do!  (((HUGS)))

Re: [Devics-spectrum] Good news and sad news

November 2, 2011 by Collinsmommy   Comments (3)

Sorry you will not be able to go, Michelle!  However, I am beyond excited you are seeing Dr Cree!  He is usually at the conference himself, I wonder if he is not going this year or if he is leaving after the doctor conference on Tuesday.


I will not be able to attend this year either & had planned to watch it online.   However, Collin has ended up with an appointment in Atlanta on that day, so I will miss watching it too!!  Hope they put it online very soon!!

~Lisa~
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***FREE*** Jewelry for you!!!






Re: [Devics-spectrum] Our Kendall is ill again.

October 20, 2011 by Collinsmommy   Comments (0)

(((HUGS))) to you, Kendall!  I love you & I am praying!  I too hate this disease!

~Lisa~

Your FAVORITE Jewelry Lady!
***FREE*** Jewelry for you!!!





On Thu, Oct 20, 2011 at 9:21 PM, <

Sending up prayers....



Cherie



Re: [Devics-spectrum] need some help

October 13, 2011 by Collinsmommy   Comments (0)

Collin gets Hizentra, it is the subcutaneous version of IVIG.  We infuse him ourselves twice a  week at home.  He likes it better in his thighs, so we rotate legs.  It takes about 1.5 hours to infuse.  There are times we do it several days in a row if he needs it.  It is so much easier on him than going to the hospital to get it done all the time, plus it keeps his levels even & not bouncing up & down.  We are getting ready to start a 10 day course with him to see if it will help his fatigue any.  It is very expensive, but not as much as going into the hospital to have it done all the time.

Re: [Devics-spectrum] OUR KENDALL---AN UPDATE.

September 23, 2011 by Collinsmommy   Comments (0)

Grace. please keep me updated!  I am so worried about her!  She is such an amazing person, I have had a wonderful time the last years getting to know her & spending time with her in LA the last 2 years.  She is very dear to me also! 

Please send my love.


~Lisa~
Your FAVORITE Jewelry Lady!

***FREE*** Jewelry for you!!!





On Fri, Sep 23, 2011 at 10:42 PM, <gracepdm@atlanticbb.net> wrote:

Yes, Kendall is seriously ill right now and her family is most concerned.  Right now things are about the same, but as soon as I receive an update from her husband or mom, I'll be sure to post.



Kendall is very dear to me, as she is to many.  She has been with Tim (now deceased) and I since the earliest days of Devic's Support.  Over the years she became a much loved friend to both of us.



Please continue to pray for her well being.



Grace



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